Valentia

the witching hour…random thoughts

December 28, 2007 · 7 Comments

this lack of sleep is making me restless…making me wonder..and think about stuff that I ordinarily just shelve away in the back of mind..marked “to be reviewed later”..random questions about my life…and that of my pals in general

1. Why is it that whenever I ask a guy who a certain chic is, he answers in the vaguest way possible?? I’m not going to jump down your throat just coz you told me you had a history with her…personally I think its better for you to tell me..rather than for me to find out…much later on…ati “she’s just my pal’s sis”…shish…

2. Confused men…I really wonder what goes on in your heads..seriously..if I could get into some particular guy’s head for a day my life would be so much clearer..one minute he wants to be with you..next he doesn’t..but doesn’t want you to move on..when you do…there are issues..seriously what is up with that???

3. Possessive friends…how to handle them. I have a friend who I dearly love..except she sometimes has the habit of being so clingy…in a double standard way..she has to know the exact ins and outs of my life but isn’t open with hers….guess friendship is about accepting the other person…but sometimes…hai!

4. Chics who go for guys who they know are taken…what is up with that??why would you accept to be second best?? as in you and everyone else knows the other chic is the number one woman…if he wanted to be with you..he wouldn’t be with her right?? and trying to convince your friends he’s different when he’s with you won’t work either..its reached a point I don’t want you to tell me your problems..coz you won’t listen to any advice..so why ask for it?? (slight venting there…)

5. Dirty people…have to be one of life’s greatest pains..I have no problem with a bit of mess…..untidy is ok..infact allowed in my book..but downright dirty..gah!!!!!….sometimes its such a relief not to have my housemates around at this time…as in washing..cleaning up once in a while (and I don’t mean annually)..doesn’t hurt…why would someone want to live like that???

deep breath…

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7 responses so far ↓

  • aegeus // December 28, 2007 at 5:48 am | Reply

    welcome to the blogosphere :-) …i may drop by from time to time…

  • modo randomly // December 28, 2007 at 8:20 am | Reply

    Actualy i’l b mo frequent.

    #1. We never knw when its safe to just say it. Been a victim enuf tyms. Once was actualy told ’si u would hav just said she’s a cousin or somethng’.

    #2. Just that, confusion.

    #4. I thnk its a challenge (sadistic) for chiley number 2. They want 2 c if they cn b number one, nd when they finaly do, they bounce, leaving the ‘he who wants all getting none’. I’v seen it.

    And a clean n tidy new year 2 u. I like it here.

  • betty // December 28, 2007 at 11:58 am | Reply

    yes..ati you are asking who’s that mama..the answer you’re getting is “oh her? my pal” duuuuuuuuh ‘course you wouldn’t be talking to your enemy aishh ..but at least the man/men i have asked very recently answered me lool donno if ‘i used to work with her’ was actually true but at least it wasn’t ’she’s my pal’ !!

    DIRT..i cringe at the sound of that word..if you leave it lying around and it is clean..am cool..but leave it aroung and it’s Dirty aauuuiiiii…i’ll chapa you to high heaven !

    “wooooossaaaaaaaaaaa” lol

  • Tweety // December 29, 2007 at 8:21 pm | Reply

    Women who go for taken men…Ugh.Bad memories from high school.

    Women they’ve had history with…I’ve got no issues unless this “history” is trying to repeat itself.If you get what i mean.

    Welcome!

  • valentia // December 30, 2007 at 2:08 am | Reply

    the history thing..has happened to me twice…and “repeated”..itself recently in both accounts…makes me wonder what to believe…

  • candybox // January 31, 2008 at 6:28 pm | Reply

    I agree with all the above. By the way you don’t happen to be the other me do you? Very strange……..

  • valentia // February 1, 2008 at 1:59 am | Reply

    lol @ candybox..for a minute there when I read your blog I thought you sounded like one of my best pals…very strange I agree:)

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