Valentia

Will you marry me?

October 9, 2008 · 17 Comments

If someone asked you to marry them over an email, IM, text, phone….what would you do?

Like honestly, who does that??

And then the proposal itself isn’t even the subject of the message..it comes as a sort of a btw…wouldn’t you take it as a joke???

(N/B: Not referring to Mr. Val btw…..but to an email I got from a (supposed) friend…..)

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17 responses so far ↓

  • 31337 // October 9, 2008 at 6:05 pm | Reply

    dry humour perhaps?

  • nzembi // October 9, 2008 at 7:21 pm | Reply

    Very dry! I got one of those and he’s lucky he was online o’wise i’d have slapped sense into him. Kumbe there’s more of him out there!

  • Kobayashi // October 9, 2008 at 10:50 pm | Reply

    I see nothing wrong with it, but then again I just a man

  • Kobayashi // October 9, 2008 at 10:51 pm | Reply

    * I am

  • petesmama // October 10, 2008 at 7:52 am | Reply

    Erm, yes. Everyone knows their man. If he is a joker and not good with the whole commitment and declaration thing, then you just go with the flow. That is probably the best proposal you are going to get and he has put in the effort. The whole proposal thing can be quite daunting, you know.

  • Sybella // October 10, 2008 at 8:29 am | Reply

    definitely cannot take that seriously.

    @petesmama, i so doubt that you actually believe that. this is supposed to be someone who wants to spend the rest of his life with you. he has to make it sound like he would be honoured if you did say yes, not like a by the way…

  • Carlo // October 10, 2008 at 9:41 am | Reply

    That was a joke. I have a friend who gets so funny he laughs so hard and tells random people he loves them. He also tells random chicks that make him laugh that he’d like to marry them. So it could be in a joking way.

  • pinkmemoirs // October 10, 2008 at 7:38 pm | Reply

    That was new! It seems the days of ‘down on one knee’ are long gone. I hope the dude was joking! I would totally ignore it and watch what happens.

  • madmyke // October 11, 2008 at 9:27 am | Reply

    Since everything seems to be changig at a pace most of us cant keep up with,I gather the proposal would depend on the kind of relationship the two have and their respective personalities.

  • valentia // October 12, 2008 at 12:50 pm | Reply

    @ 3….of the driest kind

    @ Nzembi…good to see I’m not alone :)

    @ Kobayashi…word of advice..seriously do not try this out..okie mebe for Petesmom…as in you’re for real you’d accept a proposal that wasn’t face-face?? Wah!

    @ Sybella…you have taken the words write out of my mouth!!!

    @ Carlo..this had better have bn a joke…that’s all I can say

    @ PinkM…still ignoring..

    @ Madmyke….no such thing..I can never accept such!!

  • 3TOC // October 13, 2008 at 6:39 am | Reply

    Are we back here again? Didn’t you get one of these sometime back. Kwani you are stone-faced how that people propose via text hehehehehe?

    Right my answer remains the same, depends on who is proposing. Denzel Washington proposed to his wife OVER the phone (FACT) and that was way back, when. My friend if it is a Denzel Washington he had me at HELLO ,literally. Taye Diggs has me at “would you” and by the way if any of the above turn around and say that they were joking…………I sue.

    Val, maybe dude was down on one kness when he wrote out the message hehehehehehe- sii it’s the thought that counts. Okay let me go before I am stoned to DEATH.

  • Tandra // October 13, 2008 at 1:43 pm | Reply

    i would say yes…. just to shock him ((Muhahahahahaha))

  • eddsla // October 14, 2008 at 12:03 am | Reply

    My be it was s’posd to be a joke? but then a gain,…not funny!

  • Mr. B2B... // October 14, 2008 at 8:36 am | Reply

    @3types
    that is killer
    sue…
    LOLss

    @Tandra
    not surprised…
    wondering what he’d do after that!!

    @Val
    seriously..

  • valentia // October 14, 2008 at 9:59 pm | Reply

    @ 3TOC…yes ebu get to running..hahaha..how do u type on one knee??

    @ Tandra….I’m with B2B..why am I not surprised by your response?? Tehehehe!

    @ B2B…I’m so serious

    @ Eddsla…I agree with you

  • Princess // October 22, 2008 at 3:47 pm | Reply

    Late, I know.
    But IM, text or email? WTF?
    Seriously? People do that?!

  • Val’s Inbox // December 1, 2008 at 4:10 pm | Reply

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