So he does something stupid…and you get upset…it might take him a while to figure out why exactly you’re mad. You might be the type to actually say “What you did upset me”…or the type that sulks, bursts into tears, walks around banging stuff just to express your anger, mumbles (loudly) under your breath “Useless men….etc”, goes quiet and cold…Whatever.
Point is, he has realised that you are upset..and that HE is the cause of your upset state. So comes the usual conversation;
“Baby, I’m sorry. I didn’t mean to upset you”
“Really? So what EXACTLY are you sorry for?”
Now in my experience and that of my friends, alot of guys have NO idea what the heck they are apologising for. They simply say sorry just to get you back into a good mood..or maybe to stop you banging things when he’s trying to watch something (cynical I know).
So now this is me wondering if you should just accept the apology…and move on..even though he really doesn’t understand why he upset you so much.
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Bust your windows- Jazmine Sullivan
